Virginia Dee Napolitano

Virginia Dee Napolitano was born on November 8, 1967, in Delray Beach, Florida, and passed away on October 30, 2026, at the age of 58. Her family describes her as genuine, big-hearted and authentic.

Mom found her greatest joy in being involved in the lives of her children and celebrating all of their interests, sports, hobbies, and accomplishments. She loved spending time with family and friends, listening to live music, enjoying a good time, and exploring new places. She had a creative spirit and a knack for DIY projects, always enjoying the opportunity to make something her own. Whether it was an adventure, a gathering with friends, a new project, or simply cheering on the people she loved, she loved being part of life's moments and making memories along the way.

Above all else, Mom’s greatest accomplishment and the role she cherished most was being a mother. Her children were her world, and she took immense pride in loving, raising, supporting, and being there for them. She was a devoted mother whose love, guidance, humor, honesty, and unconditional support helped shape the people her children are today. Being their mom wasn’t just a part of her life; it was her greatest purpose and the legacy she leaves behind.

Survivors include her brother William “Bill” Napolitano and wife Linda of Wallkill, NY. Her children, ToniMarie Zeyher (daughter), and husband Kyle Zeyher, Thomas (TJ) Amodeo III and fiancé Ashley Lependorf and Thomas Anthony and Tara Rooney. And her five grandchildren; Madilyn Zeyher, Gabriella Zeyher, Michael Zeyher, Theodor Rooney and Ethan Rooney. Nieces and nephews—Joseph Napolitano and Cassidy Napolitano. Many close family and friends. She had a huge love for all of her dogs who are no longer with us (RIP)—LuLu, Leo.

People will remember Mom most for her big heart, infectious sense of humor, generosity, and willingness to give the shirt off her back to anyone who needed it. She had a way of making people feel welcomed, loved, and never alone. Her storytelling, quick wit, honest opinions, and adventurous spirit made her someone people loved being around. She had a way of turning ordinary moments into memorable stories, and her laughter, larger-than-life personality, and genuine love for others will be deeply missed. She was truly one of a kind.